Audiobook: You know how people can applaud you for something but you still feel like you should’ve done more? Well that’s exactly how I've been these past couple of weeks. I’ve been beating myself up mentally about how I’m not “where I’m supposed to be.” But if you think about it ... this is where…
Author: Awoken By Hadi
On a mission to empower individuals to devote themselves to growth through discovering oneself and keeping an open mind.
“Colorism: Part Two.”
Audiobook: Every time I go to African stores, I constantly see skin-bleaching products. It honestly angers me to the core for so many reasons. Before I move on though ... Let’s Define Colorism. "Colorism is the prejudice or discrimination against individuals with a dark skin tone, typically among people of the same ethnic or racial…
“Colorism Part: One.”
Audiobook: Light-skinned, brown-skinned, dark-skinned. Which one are you labeled as? I was called both brown and dark skinned while growing up. I’m more so dark skinned now and I’m happy about it. I grew up in a society that taught me that I’m not light enough to be considered beautiful. Embracing the melanin in my…
“Small-Minded vs. Open-Minded;Which One Are You?!”
Audiobook: Let's be real, we all have our toxic traits. We can be toxic towards the people we know, love, and even to ourselves. The reality is, no one walking on this earth today is perfect. We are all flawed in someway, shape, or form. However, there is something that makes us different. Our mindsets.…
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“The Why Behind Awoken By Hadi.”
One Year Documentary: Everyone always asks me how do I come up with my blog topics. The answer is simple ... I just do it lol, just kidding. My experiences and discoveries about myself, constantly influence my choice of blog topics. Here's how it all started: There was a point in my life where I…
“Healing.”
Audiobook: Last week, I spoke about trauma and how trauma affects our daily behaviors and interactions with others. Now let’s talk about healing. Healing is a process. Not everyone goes through the healing process, however, many do. The healing process could take days, months, years. It honestly varies per person. What if I told you…
“Trauma.”
Audiobook: Natural Disasters, Sexual Abuse, Physical Abuse, Domestic Violence, Medical Injury, Community Violence, Neglect, Deprivation, Traumatic Grief, Victim of Crime, Kidnapping, Accidents, School Violence, and Loss. What is stated above can all be different forms of trauma. Trauma is defined as a deeply distressing or disturbing experience (Google). Here's a question for you: How often…
“Why Settle?”
Audiobook: As a blogger, it's easy to get caught up with 'what's popular or trending.' The same goes for social media influencers and other entrepreneurs. The truth is ... your audience will come, so don't settle for what you think is 'trending.' Stick with your values and work according to your values. If you compromise…
“Privilege.”
Audiobook: Where It All Started. When I think of the word 'privilege,' I automatically think of 'White Privilege.' Although white privilege very much exists (there's no denying that) there's something else. Lately, I have been thinking about my own privilege as a First-Generation American. Heads up, it's definitely not comparable to white privilege. Anyway, as…
“Looting In Our Communities.”
THE MINORITY OF PEOPLE PARTICIPATING IN DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR DOES NOT REPRESENT WHAT BLACK LIVES MATTER STANDS FOR! We have a duty to protect and be mindful of our black businesses. **I am not saying that black people are doing this to their own communities, it has been proven that white supremacists have dressed in black…
“We Are Tired- Enough is Enough!”
Audiobook: We are angry. We are sad. We are overwhelmed with frustration. My life is in danger. My relatives' lives are in danger. Every black person's life is in danger. How could I dare be silent about this? The murder of George Floyd surfaced on social media rapidly. It is absolutely heartbreaking, shocking, and overwhelming…
“Ramadan Reflections.”
Audiobook: Every year is the same. Ramadan always leaves as fast as it comes. Eid Mubarak to all my fellow Muslims across the globe! May Allah swt accept our fasts, prayers, and duas. Ameen. ... For every Ramadan that passes, we never know which one will be our last ... that's what's scary about it.…
“Vincent Ehindero Blogger Award!”
I'm thankful and grateful to have been nominated by The Life of Pebz for the Vincent Ehindero Award! Check out her amazing blogs by clicking this link > https://thelifeofpebz.wordpress.com/ To me, Pebz truly stands out because of her level of transparency of thoughts and being real with us! I value this greatly, thank you so…
“I Did It- So Can You.”
Audiobook: Two days ago, I received the news I've been dreaming and waiting on for a whole year. Last year, around this time, I set a goal to work my way through admittance to a specific nursing program. Because of this goal, I worked ten times harder than I normally would- giving nothing but my…
“5 Ways to Maintain Your Weight While Fasting.”
Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh! Ramadan Kareem! I hope you’re all in the best of health and taking advantage of this month of mercy. I’m going to share 5 easy doable tips that will help us all manage our weight while fasting in general. #1 Drink Enough Water During Non-Fasting Hours! Hydration is beyond…
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“Losing a Loved One.”
Audiobook: On the first day of Ramadan, Allah swt gave my family the test of losing a loved one. Even though a week has gone by, it still hurts, I don't know if will ever truly go away ... you know, the feeling. It's very strange to me because it does not feel real at…
“10 Ramadan Tips for Success.”
Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh! Ramadan Kareem! I hope you're all in the best of health and taking advantage of this month of mercy. I'm going to share 10 tips that I believe will be beneficial for all of us (including myself). #1 Be sincere and have pure intention. Remind yourself of the purpose…
“My Lifelong Struggle.”
Audiobook: Today’s blog is a bit more personal. ... “You’re too nice,” they say. I’ve heard that all my life as an introvert. Ever since I’ve started school, I have been known as the shy kid. I used to be so shy that I was too afraid to say good morning to my own teacher.…
“Enemies of Our Own Progress.”
Audiobook: I notice weird energy when it comes to being the person who starts doing something new or different within several communities. In the Fulani community, there’s so many taboos. Although there are many taboos, I’m proud that we’re the generation that’s breaking barriers and doing something new that our ancestors were too afraid to…
“Personality Matters.”
Audiobook: We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are.-- Cicero, Philosopher Favorite Quote Personality is everything to me. I admire people who aren’t afraid to show how dope they are! It’s honestly what draws me towards people. What ever happened to just being you? Not trying to be like another…
“Fulani vs. Mandingo; Who Cares?”
Audiobook: Before I start, there is a short video below that briefly explains what is currently happening in Guinea just incase if you're unaware, check it out. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=389Dbs-MOn4 Okay so let’s just cut to the chase. I am angry and disappointed. How is Guinea going to progress as a country when its own people are…
“Transitioning.”
Audiobook: The transition from being able to go wherever whenever versus being confined to our homes has made it tough for me to keep up with everything. Although it has been tough, I know that is not an excuse for me to slack off ... or you. You and I shouldn't give up on our…
“The Outbreak.”
Audiobook: The coronavirus started off as something continuously joked about. There's been memes and unfair racist backlash to the Chinese community. Ever since the coronavirus has been in the United States - things are getting serious. Schools are shutting down and switching to online coursework. People are now being forced to work from home. Professional…
“Evolution of the Fulani Girl.”
Audiobook: Evolution: the gradual development of something, especially from a simple to a more complex form (Google). Being cautious about how you present yourself is normal as a female simply for the sake of your safety. Let's face it, this world is full of scary and intense situations. We live in a society where women's…
“The Destructive Divide.”
Audiobook: On Thursday of last week, I asked the question: "Is There a Difference Between Black and African-American?" Most people said yes. To be born in a world as a black woman who knows her origin is an absolute privilege that Hadiatou does not take for granted. Although everyone should have the right of knowing…
“To Be Black & Muslim …”
Audiobook: Let's take a flashback to when you were seven years old. Did you notice as much issues in our world back then like you do now? Of course not! When I was seven, I was first exposed to racism in the muslim community when I started Islamic school. Although I was young, I noticed…
“Recipe to Success.”
Audiobook: Abraham Lincoln once said,"give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe." If you're seeking success, start by effectively preparing! Preparation is vital. It's a must! But how can we prepare ... if we lack time management skills? Some of us struggle to keep…
“Guard It.”
Audiobook: You ever heard of, “don’t overcommit.” Hadiatou has that problem! I'm the type of person that loves to knock everything out ASAP! That results in me cramming and jampacking my days with goals that can sometimes be unrealistic and makes me neglect my free time. Before I know it, I end up drained, irritated,…
“The Taboo Topic.”
Audiobook: Time is so precious. Time is so precious because it's something we can never get back. So why do we waste time? Time isn't the "taboo topic" though. The taboo topic is something that is inevitable for all living things. The taboo topic is something that most living things are afraid of facing. The…
“Seasonal Depression.”
Audiobook: Seasonal Depression. What is it? Why is Hadiatou talking about it? Because it’s that time of the year. I was first introduced to seasonal depression by one of my friends. I noticed how my friend was acting moodier during the winter time but I didn’t then understand why. I did a poll yesterday on…
